AM I MY BROTHER’S KEEPER
April 3, 2023Cuddle Season is Coming ....
As autumn leaves begin their descent and October unfurls its vibrant hues, we’re diving deep into a topic that’s been at the forefront of our minds and screens – the state of relationships in America. In a world perpetually online, the intricate fabric of relationships has been both magnified and muddled, making Dr. James N. Hassell’s latest book, “Busting the Myth of the Power Couple”, an essential read for our times.
The Current Relationship Landscape
It’s no revelation that relationships in America have been under considerable strain. According to the American Psychological Association, about 40-50% of marriages in the U.S. end in divorce. The reasons are myriad: from financial pressures to compatibility issues, but one significant modern-day factor affecting relationships is the omnipresence of social media.
Social Media’s Double-Edged Sword
While social media platforms offer connectivity, they also present a skewed reality. Comparing oneself to the highlight reels of seemingly perfect relationships online can foster feelings of inadequacy. A study from Boston University found that those who use social media excessively, >2 hours a day, report higher levels of marital dissatisfaction. The curated tales of #CoupleGoals can create unrealistic expectations, pushing individuals to seek an idealized relationship rather than cherishing the genuine moments with their partners.
Why We Need Faith-Based Guidance
In these challenging relational times, the teachings of the church and biblical principles offer a beacon of hope. The words of Jesus resonate now more than ever: “You shall know the truth, and the truth will make you free.” (John 8:32). The truth that relationships, even the best ones, have their struggles. The truth that love, patience, and understanding are continuous endeavors.
Dr. Hassell’s “Busting the Myth of the Power Couple” does precisely that. It unravels the misconceptions surrounding ‘perfect relationships’ and highlights the power of authentic love, grounded in faith. Through his wisdom, readers are reminded that true power doesn’t come from social media’s validation but from understanding, mutual respect, and God’s enduring love.
A Call to Action
As we ponder the state of relationships in America and the challenges they face, let’s arm ourselves with knowledge, wisdom, and faith. If you know couples navigating the choppy waters of modern relationships, or even if you’re seeking guidance yourself, “Busting the Myth of the Power Couple” is the compass you’ve been searching for.
Gift it to those you care about, discuss it within your community, and let’s together rediscover the essence of true love and companionship, far from the misleading glare of social media.
To order Dr. James N. Hassell’s enlightening book, click [here]. Because truth is the bridge to genuine freedom and joy in relationships.